..and my options are
It has become a nature of our culture that when someone reaches a certain age of life the big "M" will be out of the blue emerges as either a topic of conversation or as an ice-breaker. And it will not only come from the what-more-u-want-to-wait-for Parents, or the let-me-introduce-u-to-my-friends'-sons Aunts and Uncles, or i-want-to-see-u-get-married-before-30 Friends, or i-have-a-son-i-want-u-to-meet Family Friends, Colleagues, Bosses, Friends' Friends, or in my case, the girl at the clinic counter.
me: hi! *while handing my insurance ID*
girl: hello kak! you've been here before?
me: yes several times.
girl: ok gimme a sec, i go find your record. have a seat please.
me: thank you. *smile*
a few minutes later...
girl: *standing near the counter with my record in her hand* Akak ni tak kawin lagi ker?
me: Not yet, kenapa? (i was about to say, why? u have got a problem with that?)
girl: tak la..org cam *zst* *zst* *zst* lagi
me: *bitter smile*
Note: *zst* *zst* was not registered as i was busy being ignorant to her comment.
come on la people..undeniably it was 10 years ago that i celebrated my 18th birthday but that doesn't mean that i am that matured for people to frown at for not getting married.
to set the record straight, i am attracted to men, a straight, educated, well-mannered, well-groomed, adventurous (diver a must), eloquent kind of men but unfortunately there is no one that i am in love with at this particular moment. people cannot expect me to be married for the sake of getting married to some tom, dick or harry i encountered on the street.
i do appreciate and i thank all of YOU very much for the concern shown to me but please don't ask me when i'm going to end my single life for i do not have the answer to it. as of now i'm just waiting for God to set me up with someone who is willing to spend the rest of his life tango-ing with me..oh mcAvoy and the like of course
8 commentaires:
halamak..handsome gile James McAvoy..ahh..he is to die for..
For someone who hasnt got that someone special...at least u got the excuse of 'ingat senang ke nak carik pakwe zaman la ni..'
It gets harder when u have that someone special but not sure nak kawin ke tak..dillema o dillema
Ms. Dils... takkan marah kat aku for the 'Sixth Wishes' to do before thirty????
That just a wish.... no paksaan. Kalau jadi Allahdulillah la.
Ms. Umi... kenaper ada dillema pulak? Tell All of us. We want to know???
Cik Wanie..u want to know my dillema..? dun even know wer to begin.. *sigh*
i like this entry! yes people, we single girls DO want to get married, with a cute, faithful, strong, wonderful, loveable kinda guy, tengah tunggu dia muncul la nie.. soon..soon..
offtopic: ni dilla rod kan? oh what a small small world. saw ur pic on pip's blog.
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kuang..kuang..^_^v
yeah
that is it
some one live like...
i hope you would be goodluck in all your lifetime
but remember that the life means is not very easy as you live
i will be so happy
if you could come to see my weblog
thanks
ditto...
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